GIVE BIRTH TO THEM LEGALLY

Home and family is the foremost institution, in home and family life are brought forth and built up by inculcating values which then form characters. God has a processes and procedures for bring life (children) into being; these processes are marriage – family – home; in the order stated and a break in this order gives rise to illegality.
There is a trend that is becoming much common in our society and this trend is prominent among people of great influence; the class the society view as superstars or celebrities. This trend is baby mama and baby daddy syndrome. Many want baby but they are not interested in the legal process that should precede bringing forth of babies. Someone has said, “If you love children bring them into the world legally. This is the way to show honor to these children”.
Why will someone who has a means not be willing to do things right and legal? Is a question I have always asked; why choose to have baby mama when you have a great option and means to have a wife and why baby daddy when you can have a husband. I have come to the realization that irresponsibility is the explanation for this ugly trend.
Responsible people will want it legal but irresponsible illegal and shameful. Responsible people will prefer having a husband or wife before having a baby but irresponsible people will never care. But the fact remains that children are designed to be brought up in homes and family, so if a child must have character then there must be a family where this can be made possible. Only marriage can beget family/home and family begets character (value).
We will have nothing but dysfunctional children as long as this irresponsibility is allowed to thrive. A very popular star who is a baby daddy once said that his baby mama is using their baby as a bet to get money from him, how can a balanced training happen in such an environment. Judge it yourself.